Online course “Scenarios and roles in relationships”

We did everything “as it turned out”, and often quarreled over small things. After the course, we agreed on who was responsible for what, and it really removed half of our conflicts.

Before the course, it seemed that “she just likes to control everything herself.” Now I understand that it was the result of my detachment. We’ve got our roles assigned now, and we’re both calmer.

I was always saving, solving, pulling. It turned out that you can live without it — and the partner not only did not disappear, but became closer. The course provided clear tools on how to stop stealing other people’s possessions.

I didn’t understand why my wife was annoyed all the time. During the course, I saw that my passivity really hurts her. Now we have distributed both life and finances — and, honestly, I began to feel needed myself.

I always thought that I just had to do everything myself—that’s what my mom did, and I kept repeating. But after the course, I realized that it destroys relationships. My husband and I sat down, honestly distributed our responsibilities, and for the first time in 10 years I felt that we were partners, not “mom and son.”