Online course “Stop looking for someone to blame — start looking for a solution”

My husband and I were constantly arguing over small things. Someone is always “to blame.” After the course, we learned to talk about the problem, not about who made the mistake. The atmosphere at home has become calmer.

I used to go straight into accusations. The course has shown that this is a dead end. Now I can discuss solutions. My wife says I’ve become a different person.

I really liked the “stop—motion” technique. She helped us break the usual scenario of reproaches. Now, even in an argument, we come to a compromise faster. 😊

I thought it was always my fault. The course taught me to take responsibility only for my own and not to blame in return. Conflicts have really become softer and shorter.

For me, the insight was that the accusation is just a way to defend myself. When you realize this, you start acting differently. Very useful knowledge!